New Book Release!
"I Want an A-Level Marriage!" is NOW available on Amazon!
About the Authors
Raymond Lockery, PhD
Pastor and Counselor
Ray was a bar owner before coming to the Lord. He worked in the corporate world in NYC for 15 years. Later he owned various local mortgage companies with 25 loan officers in 4 offices. During that period he entered the ministry. He and Linda pastored together for over 20 years. Later Ray went back to school for his PhD in Christian Counseling. Ray is a ordained minister and life member of the International Ministerial Fellowship of 1400 pastors and chaplains.
Linda Lockery
Holistic Health Counselor
After graduating from the renowned institute, Integrative School of Nutrition in New York City, Linda counseled many women to a better, healthier life. Linda then joined Ray combining their gifts to minister as pastors and counselors. Linda's testimony of overcoming fear, anxiety and depression brings great insight into the counseling practice.
"I Want an A-Level Marriage!"
Through our extensive experience in ministry and my achievement of a Ph.D. in Christian Counseling, Linda and I founded Truth & Peace Pastoral Counseling in Connecticut 16 years ago. As a unique husband-and-wife counseling team, we bring both male and female perspectives, ensuring couples feel genuinely heard and understood. Now based in Oklahoma, we continue to serve couples with the same passion and dedication. In addition to her role as a counselor, Linda’s background as a renowned graduate of the Integrative School of Nutrition in New York City has enabled her to guide countless women toward healthier, more fulfilling lives. Her inspiring testimony of overcoming fear, anxiety, and depression enriches the support and encouragement she provides to the couples we counsel. Together, we are deeply committed to helping others find transformation and hope in their lives and relationships. With I Want an A-Level Marriage, we aim to empower couples seeking help for their marriages, equipping them to build thriving, A-level partnerships.
Chapter 1
Linda's Wake-Up Call
A journey begins with a powerful realization. Linda shares her raw and personal story of loneliness and the longing for deeper connection, setting the stage for transformative lessons in love and marriage.
Chapter 2
My Perspective
Ray offers his side of the story, providing a candid look at how differing perspectives and personal struggles shape the dynamics of a relationship.
Chapter 3
A National Epidemic
Loneliness isn’t just personal; it’s widespread. This chapter explores how disconnection plagues relationships and society and introduces the foundational steps to bridge the gap.
Chapter 4
Why Are You Here?
What is the true purpose of your relationship? This chapter dives deep into introspection and helps couples uncover the driving forces behind their commitment.
Chapter 5
The True Desire is for Love
Love is more than a feeling; it’s a transformative force. Discover how genuine love can heal, connect, and elevate your relationship to new heights.
Chapter 6
There's a Thief in Your House
Uncover the silent saboteurs stealing joy and intimacy from your relationship. Learn how to identify and overcome these challenges to protect your connection.
Chapter 7
The Five Essentials for an A-Level Relationship
This chapter introduces the core principles for building a thriving, A-level relationship: honesty, authenticity, transparency, trustworthiness, and being a safe person.
Chapter 8
The Heroes That Bring About Change
Meet the champions of transformation—concepts, actions, and principles that inspire real and lasting change in your relationship.
Chapter 9
The Dance for Connection
Connection is an art. This chapter teaches the rhythm and steps to foster closeness, trust, and mutual understanding with your partner.
Chapter 10
God Desires an Intimate A-Level Relationship
Explore how faith plays a vital role in building deeper relationships—not just with your spouse but with God Himself.
Chapter 11
What Do I Do Now?
The closing chapter offers practical advice and actionable steps to implement the lessons from the book, helping you take your marriage to the next level.
What You'll Gain From Reading I Want an A-Level Marriage!
Transform Your Relationship with Practical Insights, and Faith-Based Guidance.
Practical Tools for Strengthening Communication
Strategies for Rekindling Romance
Insights into Building Trust
Guidance for Resolving Conflict
Faith-Based Principles for Connection
Personal Growth for a Stronger Partnership
Encouragement to Overcome Challenges
Practical Steps for Lasting Transformation
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Your Path to an A-Level Marriage
A Simple 3-Step Journey
Reflect on Your Relationship
Step 1
Begin by examining your current relationship dynamics. Use the book's insights and thought-provoking questions to identify areas for growth, understand the root of challenges, and reconnect with your partner’s needs and desires.
Implement Key Strategies
Step 2
Put the book's practical tools and faith-based principles into action. From communication techniques to rekindling romance and building trust, each chapter provides actionable steps to strengthen your marriage and deepen your connection.
Transform
and Thrive
Step 3
Apply the lessons consistently to create lasting transformation in your relationship. Embrace the journey of becoming an A-level couple, living out the principles that foster love, unity, and fulfillment in your marriage.
Common Questions Married Couples Face—and How This Book Can Help
"Are we growing apart?"
Learn how the five essentials for an A-level marriage can help you reconnect emotionally and spiritually with your partner.
"Why do we keep having the same arguments?"
Discover communication strategies that address the root causes of conflict, helping you find peace and resolution.
"Can we rekindle the romance we used to have?"
Explore practical ways to reignite passion and intimacy, inspired by real-life stories and faith-driven guidance.
"Does my partner truly understand and hear me?"
Uncover how to foster honesty, transparency, and trust so you and your spouse feel genuinely heard and valued.
"Are we building a strong foundation for the future?"
Use the book’s process to strengthen the trust, faith, and shared goals that ensure long-term success.
"Why do I feel lonely, even though I’m married?"
Address emotional disconnection by applying the book’s teachings on vulnerability, safety, and mutual understanding.
"Are we setting a good example for our children or others?"
Learn how to create a marriage that not only fulfills you but also inspires others and leaves a lasting legacy.
"Is it too late to save our relationship?"
Be encouraged by stories of transformation and practical steps that show it’s never too late to achieve the marriage you desire.
Ready to Get Started on Your Journey to an A-Level Marriage?
Who's This Book Perfect For?
Couples Seeking to Reignite Connection
Couples Struggling with Conflict or Challenges
Newlyweds and Faith-Based Couples
Couples Seeking Personal Growth
Anyone Searching for Hope in Marriage
Faith-Based Couples
STILL NOT SURE IF YOU SHOULD GIVE IT A READ?
Frequently Asked Questions
"What if our marriage isn’t bad enough to need help?"
This book isn’t just for couples in crisis—it’s for anyone who wants to take their marriage from good to truly exceptional. Even small changes can lead to big improvements in connection, communication, and intimacy.
"I don’t know if my partner would be interested."
While it’s ideal for both partners to read the book, you don’t have to wait for your spouse to join in. The principles and strategies shared can create positive changes, even if you take the first step on your own.
"Will this book feel too ‘preachy’ or judgmental?"
Not at all. This book is written with empathy, encouragement, and a conversational tone. It’s designed to guide you, not judge you, as you work toward building a stronger, more fulfilling marriage.
"Can this book actually apply to my situation?"
Yes! The principles in this book are flexible and adaptable, no matter your challenges or stage of marriage. You’ll find tools and insights that can make a difference for you.
"I’m not sure if my spouse and I have time to read it."
This book is designed for busy couples. The chapters are easy to digest, and you can apply the lessons at your own pace, focusing on what matters most to you and your relationship.
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